Exceeding Normalcy?

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Exceeding Normalcy?
When they don't have a well rounded life	1 (16.7%)
What's Normal?	2 (33.3%)
When they kidnap their favorite "personality" to spend the day with them, like they were old chums	2 (33.3%)
Other	1 (16.7%)
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Exceeding Normalcy?; When "interests" go to far
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Moon	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:42 pm Post #1
Posts: 8,682 Group: 5000 post Angel Member #5 Joined: November 17, 2005	When do interests cross the line of becoming not healthy? And by interests it can be ANYTHING that makes an individual curious. Sport Actor/Actress Job Porn Cleaning There's just a few of the possibilities, ones we would most likely be most familiar with. Sport could include playing it so often that they never have time for family or to even date if they are single. An actor/actress would, imo, become not healthy when you stop admiring just their work, and making them a part of your life. Such as if you are an artist, somehow all your work has something that is a reflection of them, your ideal "traits" would all be based on them, etc. I have a friend who I swear has fantasy actors to avoid the reality of actually having a mate. Meaning that it's safer to draw them, design clothes for them, watch their films over and over and think their characters are somehow a part of who they really are, instead of taking a chance on life and love and getting out there with someone. Know anyone with an interest that goes beyond what would allow them to have a normal and happy life?



Alisium	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:43 pm Post #2
Womb-Raider Posts: 5,003 Group: maco 5000 post angel Member #1,345 Joined: October 19, 2007	Probably when it fills you rather than you filling it. Make sense.



Gummy	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:44 pm Post #3
Me in 10 years^^^ Posts: 29,655 Group: Nu Trek Nirvana Member #706 Joined: July 23, 2007	Alisium Jun 9 2009, 07:43 PM Probably when it fills you rather than you filling it. Make sense. I couldn't have put it any better or in any simpler terms.



Alisium	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:46 pm Post #4
Womb-Raider Posts: 5,003 Group: maco 5000 post angel Member #1,345 Joined: October 19, 2007	Thanks dude.



Moon	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:49 pm Post #5
Posts: 8,682 Group: 5000 post Angel Member #5 Joined: November 17, 2005	Alisium Jun 9 2009, 06:43 PM Probably when it fills you rather than you filling it. Make sense. That sounds so sexual, I can't process. Can you reword that?



Gummy	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:50 pm Post #6
Me in 10 years^^^ Posts: 29,655 Group: Nu Trek Nirvana Member #706 Joined: July 23, 2007	Moon Jun 9 2009, 07:49 PM Alisium Jun 9 2009, 06:43 PM Probably when it fills you rather than you filling it. Make sense. That sounds so sexual, I can't process. Can you reword that? When one becomes so obsessed with it that it consumes everything that you think, say or do in every moment of your life.



Moon	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:52 pm Post #7
Posts: 8,682 Group: 5000 post Angel Member #5 Joined: November 17, 2005	Gummy Jun 9 2009, 06:50 PM Moon Jun 9 2009, 07:49 PM Alisium Jun 9 2009, 06:43 PM Probably when it fills you rather than you filling it. Make sense. That sounds so sexual, I can't process. Can you reword that? When one becomes so obsessed with it that it consumes everything that you think, say or do in every moment of your life. Does that happen with porn?



Alisium	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:53 pm Post #8
Womb-Raider Posts: 5,003 Group: maco 5000 post angel Member #1,345 Joined: October 19, 2007	Moon Jun 9 2009, 03:49 PM Alisium Jun 9 2009, 06:43 PM Probably when it fills you rather than you filling it. Make sense. That sounds so sexual, I can't process. Can you reword that? When you use it as singular a way to define yourself rather than merely being something, one of the things that make up the wonderfully complex persons we are. Who comes to mind is that woman who went to court wearing her starfleet uniform. Or, a person I knew in the Marine Corps (that I hated, hated with a passion) who could only hold a conversation with you if you were talking about sports to some degree.



Gummy	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:56 pm Post #9
Me in 10 years^^^ Posts: 29,655 Group: Nu Trek Nirvana Member #706 Joined: July 23, 2007	Damn Ali. You topped me again.



Moon	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:57 pm Post #10
Posts: 8,682 Group: 5000 post Angel Member #5 Joined: November 17, 2005	I know religious folk like that too.



Moon	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:57 pm Post #11
Posts: 8,682 Group: 5000 post Angel Member #5 Joined: November 17, 2005	Gummy Jun 9 2009, 06:56 PM Damn Ali. You topped me again. Sorry, everything I read tonight is perverted. Gummy's catching tonight!!



Gummy	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:58 pm Post #12
Me in 10 years^^^ Posts: 29,655 Group: Nu Trek Nirvana Member #706 Joined: July 23, 2007	One of my Deputy Chiefs only wanted to talk about hunting and fishing. I couldn't get him to talk about work unless I put a gun to his head. Thank Sweet Jesus he retired.



Alisium	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:59 pm Post #13
Womb-Raider Posts: 5,003 Group: maco 5000 post angel Member #1,345 Joined: October 19, 2007	Moon Jun 9 2009, 03:57 PM I know religious folk like that too. Sadly my mother is quickly becoming like that. Almost every conversation is turing faith based these days.



Gummy	Tue Jun 9, 2009 4:59 pm Post #14
Me in 10 years^^^ Posts: 29,655 Group: Nu Trek Nirvana Member #706 Joined: July 23, 2007	Moon Jun 9 2009, 07:57 PM Gummy Jun 9 2009, 06:56 PM Damn Ali. You topped me again. Sorry, everything I read tonight is perverted. Gummy's catching tonight!! Hit me with your best shot.



Moon	Tue Jun 9, 2009 5:01 pm Post #15
Posts: 8,682 Group: 5000 post Angel Member #5 Joined: November 17, 2005	Alisium Jun 9 2009, 06:59 PM Moon Jun 9 2009, 03:57 PM I know religious folk like that too. Sadly my mother is quickly becoming like that. Almost every conversation is turing faith based these days. My Mom does that, and then she also does it with her radio shows too. I'm sure one day she'll be telling me about all the problems she see's in poor people lives, how she hopes things turn out right for them and its' really a soap she's been watching on tv.



Gummy	Tue Jun 9, 2009 5:03 pm Post #16
Me in 10 years^^^ Posts: 29,655 Group: Nu Trek Nirvana Member #706 Joined: July 23, 2007	Her radio shows?



Moon	Tue Jun 9, 2009 5:05 pm Post #17
Posts: 8,682 Group: 5000 post Angel Member #5 Joined: November 17, 2005	Gummy Jun 9 2009, 07:03 PM Her radio shows? She's pretty much believing anything and everything a certain radio host says. Brainwashed.



Ltpondwater9	Tue Jun 9, 2009 5:06 pm Post #18
Tomahawk Chop Posts: 13,389 Group: Cardassian 10000 post spammer Member #1,768 Joined: January 9, 2008	It's like an addiction, it makes up for something where something else lacks.



Gummy	Tue Jun 9, 2009 5:08 pm Post #19
Me in 10 years^^^ Posts: 29,655 Group: Nu Trek Nirvana Member #706 Joined: July 23, 2007	Moon Jun 9 2009, 08:05 PM Gummy Jun 9 2009, 07:03 PM Her radio shows? She's pretty much believing anything and everything a certain radio host says. Brainwashed. I know people who are like that with Rush Limbaugh.



Moon	Tue Jun 9, 2009 5:11 pm Post #20
Posts: 8,682 Group: 5000 post Angel Member #5 Joined: November 17, 2005	Good guess.



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