GalaxyClassUSSEnterpriseNCC1701D

June 01 2006, 7:15 pm

I understand being stressed and stuff so when you have time reply to this

first off normally I think you're a great guy and a good poster, and hopefully nothing I say or have said will offend you enough to cause a rift between us


now, when I saw your post admitting that you set a trap for Samus to "teach him a lesson" and make him "feel" like the people you thought were SO hurt by not being named as a post of the year candidate

I was so angry if you were in the same room I seriously would have punched you in the face

I think you need to SEE your actions and what you've done,
Samus TRUSTED you, and SAW you as a FRIEND,
you then USED that Trust to stab him in the back to teach him your self rightous lesson,
that's totally wrong, you DO NOT do that to someone who is a "friend" and who has done nothing wrong

the people who felt "hurt" by not being nominated probably were sad for about 10 seconds and then just went on their marry way, just like the people did last year when we had SEVERAL popularity contest threads
Hell I wasn't nominated by ONE person, and before the Nexcal #### I was considered to be the nicest person on the boards and was one of the most popular and most respected, did you see ME having a tizzy fit and teaching people lessons?

you really need to realize what you did, If you were ever made fun of and ganged up on by people in highschool or JrHigh then you might be able to realize the way you made Samus feel
NO ONE felt that bad but Samus, in his mind you've used him and his trust, made him a fool for trusting you, and then you stabbed him in the back, ridiculed him before his peers, and then after your little posse came in and made him feel like #### you proudly announced it was all a trap to make him feel like ####

I just cant believe that, it just disgusts me that someone could purposefully hurt someone so deeply and then PROUDLY proclaim that it was their intention to hurt that person

I wouldn't be surprised if you made Samus feel like crying, I've been there, I have had everyone turn on me, I've had people gang up on me in arguments and then howl with cheers and laughter when I leave the room before I break down
(granted this all happened 10+ years ago, oh what fond memories you've made surface for me, thanks)
what you did to him was horrible, and then to not even really apologize and constantly say that you're justified it just insane,
you're NOT justified ONE BIT, YOU PURPOSED to hurt Samus,
Samus didn't intend to hurt one person
and if Wissaboo and Moondance still can't get over the stupid MVP thing that's THEIR problem (by the way, contrary to what they tell you, the MVP thing was NOT that bad at all, Scooby just whined and whined until everyone was so tired of her whining they gave up and cancelled the contest, no one got 'hurt' or 'left out' in that)

There have been contests that I pointed out that probably DID hurt people, like the huge 10+ round Queen of the boards threads in 10F last fall, now THOSE people left out probably felt like #### because out of around 100 people to be left out from that would definatly make you feel horrible since so many people are included but you

there have been "who's your favorite poster" threads, and "who are the posters you think are the best" or "who are the best people here" threads, in those threads people would list people, and if a friend wasn't on that list well dang, that would sure mean that "friend" probably doesn't like you ?that much

people always ignored them if they didn't like them, and no one ever got "hurt" and if they did they were big adults about it and just moved on and never told anyone

exactly what you claimed to be fighting against you yourself are guilty of by what you did to Samus

perhaps you should REread my two posts in the avatar thread

you may have a big postcount, and people may like you and blindly follow you, but you are STILL a newb and haven't been here long enough nor do you have a grasp on enough history of this place to be able to pull #### like you did

you took it PERSONAL that Samus didn't listen to you, and so you MADE it PERSONAL by trapping Samus like that

you COULD have just started YOUR OWN thread and talked about how peer pressure and popularity were wrong and a curse on socity, but no
He had your Avatar, and he wasn't listening to you, so Boo Hoo you decided to teach him a lesson

hopefully no one tries to teach you a lesson like that, you wont like it, and all you'll learn is what Samus learned, which is to be careful who you trust and think a friend, because they can turn on you faster then a diamondback rattle snake for not reason at all



stop telling him you're sorry unless you're actually going to stop justifying a gross misues of power and popularity that you have






I'm sorry I'm coming off so hardlined, but this has angered me quite a bit, I do not stand by when something like this is done to someone who didn't deserve it


hopefully you will read this all and keep an open mind, I realize that when I'm angry I can say inflamitory things, and that will cause someone to take offense instead of actually reflecting on what I have written
so maybe you should read this a few times before replying

I'm just trying to be a true friend, a true friend will try and point out a mistake to someone they care about even at the risk of being black listed


hopefully you can get less stressed soon Jason, hopefully we can work this out and not have an issue between us

Darren

Heather123477

Jun 1 2006, 07:48 PM

I got a rather long pm from Darren myself explaining his position in a much kinder way. I spoke to Samus at length too. I told both of them essentially to just let it go. I doubt they will listen to me but I had to try.

I don't like to hear anyone say that they are leaving or that they will stay away. People are going to disagree, thats life. Don't let this crap keep you away Jason. If anything keeps you away, let it be me.

GalaxyClassUSSEnterpriseNCC1701D

June 01 2006, 8:44 pm

Perhaps you don't know the whole Nexus story
after I do most the work, invite hundreds of people, and then do my JOB, I get tossed to the curb and not even told I was being demoted

JOEL destroyed that board, I just saw it happening and decided to cut my losses and make sure that he didn't end up being jumped on by everyone for trying to avenge the way I was treated, so I never disclosed exactly what he did, and I kept letting certain parts stay my fault

all I did was remove pictures I uploaded, and made sure the ban settings were correct
oh man, I'm so evil huh? I tried to buffer the hate dirrected at McClain because he didn't have to destroy the board, and I felt that he was only doing it because of me and I don't like people to end up losing stuff because of me

I never hurt one ####ing person on NExus or anywhere else I dare you find one person that I intentionally hurt the entire time I've been a member of ST.COM or NExus or Excal,

and I've apologized MANY times to the people who were members of Nexus and as a result got burned, I've even PMed them about it when it happened, I've also apologized to Kai and Rajiin, and Tiberius, and I've constantly said that there was a better way then to let the site get tanked

and I've never apologized with a justification

so don't try and pull that BS man, I've already repaired the damage done on my side of the fence

Stop talking about things you do not know about Jason

Jadzia20

Jun 2 2006, 01:28 AM

Awwww man does this mean ill be getting more PM's from both Darren and Samus -_-' .

I think im going to have to step back from the Samus argument becasue, i get along with Samus as well as Darren and the last thing i want to do is be caught in a rift between the folk here and over there.

I allready got a bollocking from Samus and Odogoo for not standing up for them and has taken me about 10 PM's to sort it out.