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So, I might be a father soon...
Topic Started: Mar 26 2011, 01:46 AM (235 Views)
-Rynex-
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My girlfriend missed her period this month, meaning there's a very real chance that I may have accidentally made a baby despite the fact that she's on the pill and we always use condoms. I'll find out for sure pending further tests.

I'm fucking scared, guys. I'm not ready to be a father. I mean, if push comes to shove and she is pregnant, I'm not going to just drop her and disregard my kid's existence. I'm more honorable than that.

I'll keep you guys posted. In the meantime, I'll sit here squirming.
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Psycho Werekitsune
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Jeez man, that's...well pretty heavy. Having a kid's a lotta responsibility, so regardless of whether this turns out to be the real deal or a dud, I think it's a sign that you need to start thinking about your future and taking measures to ensure you'll have a stable one to support a potential family. I'm not sure about your job/living situation so you may want to invest in something long term if you haven't already.

I don't mean to sound preachy, just keeping things real. Otherwise, early potential congrats on the baby. n_n
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-Rynex-
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Money and stability and such shouldn't be much of an issue since I'm graduating from university this summer and I already have a few jobs lined up. I'm just not sure if I'm psychologically or emotionally mature enough for something like this. I suppose no one ever is, but still.
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-Arem-
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You see? This is why I'm gay! [shot.]

Jokes aside, I doubt anyone is really ready to be a parent. When the time comes, you just do it. Anyway, good luck with that.

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Blacklightning
Nov 14 2011, 02:48 AM
I like it when people use the word "gay" in any context other than a homosexual one - it only proves that they have the maturity of a five year old, as if their obsession with shooters didn't already do a good job of pointing that out. It's also pretty amusing that he pointed out Skyrim considering the fact that, y'know, it's set in the bloody medival era and doesn't even have muskets, let alone generic modern firearms.

But just for fun, let's play around with his logic a bit.

game - gun = gay
game + gun = -gay
game + gun + Arem = ???


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-The Raging Zephyr-
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Worse comes to worse, send the child off to another set of parents that you feel are better.

Please note that I don't believe any one woman is perfectly regular, so you may just have a scare on your hands. Otherwise, don't forfeit your own futures just because you may not be able to provide for a child how you want to.
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-Kay G. Radley-
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If it does turn out to be true, think of it this way: you got nine months to prep yourself. That's thee fourths of a year. Lots of time.

That aside, congrats if it's true. :)
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That sucks... but it could've been worse if she wasn't the one you want to be with. Maybe your family could help out with the responsibilities.
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-Rynex-
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Tests are back, she's pregnant.

So... yeah.

EDIT: And no, this is not an April Fool's joke. This is quite legitimate.
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