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Selling Ores!; All shapes, and sizes!
Topic Started: Jan 27 2006, 07:14 PM (275 Views)
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Oi!
So what the approprete "mouring" time?
Girl(one of mybest freind) breaks up with guy (who happens to be one of my best freinds) and guy (out of spite mostly) gets with random girl(who dumped him in less then a week).
So I'm confused...
Well me and girl are very close friends, I give her gifts and she draws pics for me, shes teaching me how to draw.
Shes a bigger fan of Mangas then me but she likes all the ones I do, she even "borrowed" my FMA overshirt and wore it the whole day...
But not to get guy mad, or anything, how long should I wait?
Oh and guy can't fight, so it wouln't get like that.


PHEREME, it's not a matter of 'waiting'. Since you mentioned that they're both your best friends, its better to be upfront about it. Instead of 'waiting', and hiding your feelings for "girl" from "guy", you should tell him. (Although in dating etiquette, it's never right to date your bestfriends ex-girlfriend.) But, if your feelings for her is strong, then you might as well go with the flow. Tell "guy" you really want to go out with "girl. If he was really your best friend, he'd respect the fact that it would make you happy, and won't take it into offense. ^_^

Long post....
Ok well real names now...
Anna(girl) broke up with robert(guy) but robert still likes anna, but is too afrid to say it.Beacuse he liked anna for 3 years, starting in 6th grade, and FINNALY had the courage to ask her out... but he was dumped....
Now hes acting all "emo" but Anna shows no emotion for him,vice versa too, when they sit and eat(our group is about 10 ppl and they are both in it) they hardly talk.To eachother or anyone else...

I would tell Anna how I feel if it weren't for Alaina (ooh... 3rd wheel...) beacuse Anna thinks where together, beacuse were pratically where, all my friends (girl ones that is) seem like were are bf and gf. And Anna only sees Alaina.

Then theres Lancing (the talented Classmate one) who drew a commeritive pic of all her friends (or at least all her friends that were at the liberay that day) it was a 3 page layout. Anna has hers, in the pic shes next to Specer and Robert. Then When Lancing drew a pic for me(that looks like Rikku) she used the pannel that had most of roberts body. When I showed anna it she took it from me...

So its not so simple.

Just to tell you, My name is Daniel, a boy with Curly hair~ thats how most ppl rember me... I'm not the most poplular( actaually I'm pretty low rung... but still better then the rubix cubes and the tech ads... I'm somewhere in beteween Band Geek and Asian tree(Yes beacuse thats where the Manga ppl are), but niether is Anna or Robert.

Most of the time I talk at school with Anna about things (she likes to bring up Anime and Music, beacuse thats common ground as shes a Big FMA fan and plays string instruments). So we do have stuff in common.

My last "relationship" was with another friend(Tats her nickname)(who has no reationship to this, but I don't wanna make the same mistake..), I was put up by her best friend Jackey, they were nice to me, both of them, they called me Dami(which only my gf seems to Always call me....) and so does Anna now... but as soon as I asked her, and she said yes, I huged her, but it didn't seem right yet....

I'm not that savy in writing poems, or singing a song or anything. Theres a Val. dance on the 10th but shes not going, I asked, she said shed go with me as friends but he dad said no, she hasn't been able to go to any of the dances(through all grades).

Robert and I sit next to eachother in L.A class(beacuse the teacher is a crackhead,yes we HAVE seen her takeing small white tablets, without counting them, and swolled them whole, before giveing a lesson....) and talk. Hes really into Intal d, hes a intaldfreak (which is one of his e mails, but I woun't say which sever beacuse this is too personal) and thats what he likes to bring up. Once and a while he(or I) bring up Anna, last time it was beacuse I basically blanted asked if he was trying to do the "emo" look. And he told me Anna was too.
Me:So your wearing ur emo hat again?
Robert:ya, emo ppl rock....
.........
Me: You have nothing to rebel agenst, your just acting(I know bit harsh)
Robert:You think I'm just acting? Well how about Anna? Do u think shes just acting too?
Me:(shocked) whats wrong with anna?
Robert:She has problems with her family...
I didn't ask why, if she told him, it wasn't something to be spred around.(yes I told him that)

Alaina says that Anna perfect in all ways, so its why her life is so bad... :(

So theres Another elemet to the story.Oh the Drama!(sarastally{sp?})

But it helped to tell someone else, even though nobody will really care, there just names.

So I'm confused... by most of it....
Either way, moday come, I'll ask her a bit.

Actually at this point, I'm more worried about Robert then Anna, if he told me that he was going to start dateing anna again I'd be.... for a lack of words... pissed. So I can only say the same in retrospect.
This post took over 30 mins... beacuse I didn't want to revil too much...Sorry for spelling its almost 3 Am here...

But the worst thing is.... Anna's drawings are getting sadder... she used to be all happy, but now she draws darker stuff.(But she did a blossom tree background days ago for me)Was that clue?
Her Binder reads "Love is just a illusion" to
"Only first kisses are real"
then she pinned roberts pic that he drew.... so I started to draw, now I'm better then him, and in only 5 weeks...

Why does it have to be so hard?
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Daniel(PHEREME), I completely understand what you're going through.
Now that you've elborated what was going on, I totally agree when you say that it's just so difficult to go through.

Again, Robert being your bestfriend, you should keep in mind how he's feeling at all times. Ever heard the saying, "Friends are forever"? The last thing you would want happening is losing both Anna and Robert.

I know you'd be undoubtedly depressed if he got her back, and vice versa, but you need to let him know how you feel about Anna. He may be going through his "emo" stage, but he has the right to know. But if you ask me, it seems that she still means a lot to him, and in a way, Robert still means a lot to her too. You probably see it already but, the love is still there between the two. Robert's state of depression is probably his way of getting over Anna. Correct me if I'm wrong but, female's usually take a LOT longer to get over a break-up, whether or not they end it off. Trust me; I learned that the hard way. -_-

The best thing you can do right now is put Robert's feelings in front. Think about it this way, how would you feel if your best friend took away you ex-girlfriend right after your breakup? Before you make a move, find out how Robert would feel about it. I know it's going to be hard, but I don't think you would want to go through a relationship right now when you know your bestfriend is down, your girlfriend is confused, and while you're feeling guilty about it. It's just not worth it.
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Mostly teens yes. But we do have platinumterd and he's getting close to the big 5-0.
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how much each?
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Depends on the ore.

Normal ores: 800 - 1,500 mesos.
Crystal Ores : 10,000 mesos +

Those are just estimates. Don't like the prices?
I don't mind negotiating at all! Just holler at me in Bera. :)
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u got any steel and how much for it? and can u plzz tell me the kind of crystal ores u got my ign is colosusss ill be on tmr hope i can see u on
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Mostly teens yes. But we do have platinumterd and he's getting close to the big 5-0.

5-0? You mean 50???? DAM! I never knew he was turning 50.. :P
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MMKayy to post teh results...

Told alanina, she was like, in her own words "OMG I didn't relize that *drops nacho* *laughing* ooh! I get it now, U like anna!"~ apperntly it shows...

Robert been even MORE of an ........... anyway... he told her that she has a horrible singing voice so she shouldn't try out for the talent show, she WAS going to sing "Isn't it Bueatifull?/<Japnesse name, think its Sukai de ____>(not really sure....) and she was going to sing in both lauanges... She had a really soft voice, but she was right on pitch and everything... she was practicing everyday after 0 period... He shot her down... she didn't try out

Anna's been really worried about going to high school(we're 8th graders, all metioned). She asked me, josh(who was outside with us) and Evelin( the aid, who help teaches adv.Org) and decided to take the magnet to *school where I'm going* in a business class, which she wants to minor in(so its not just some randomness thing) then...
Demetius, one of my and roberts friends, told her if she went to *school's name* insted of *school's name(where I'm going)* she was to be a "gangbanger's bltch"(don't give me 10% plz, its used to describe) and she now advoids our group.

Valentines day: I though it would be the Perfect chance to tell her. When I got to school.... she was one of the first ones there, she was sitting on the bench outside the Band room(where we store our instruments), said she was cold. Told her happy V-Day. And she replied "I hate today, its just some holiday made up by the candy corperation" <thats probaly not good....
Told her that V-day was for people to tell the person who they like
"but nobody likes me"
"not true, I know somebody"
(why does this feel like a badly written story? Too bad its true)
Cue the girl that drives up in the car, and is instinally handed flowers and cholate
(I'm... too... poor to buy stuff....)
She gets a bit teary eyed and hugs me, I return it
<RIGHT HERE! WHY DIDN'T I TELL HER NOW?>

Later on, at break, I can't find her, or at lunch... I didn't see her the next day either, but I did send her a e-valentine.


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Over the next days, she advoided robert and demetrious and I didn't have luch with her for 3 days (rotateing lunches) and at break she would'nt go where she normaly goes.
Lets see now its friday... Shes absent...
3 stink bombs went off... 12 police cars....(for the stink bombs, cuz they were dyed green to make it look poisioness) and the dumb people stand around it and compain it smells Bad....

And now its monday... have the whole week off... no school... but no friends... don't have her phone# or address. just e mail
Ahh... I can clearly see my mistakes now... but it suxs...



50? I thought u ment levels... but age?
How not to say this rudely... are u addicted to this?
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You know, you guys have really interesting lives. I'm so happy I have never loved anyone, my life is complicated enough already.
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Why do you say that? Personally, loving someone or being loved really takes you to a whole new level in life.
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I don't know, it's just something I dont want to feel.
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KawaiiKiwi Posted on Feb 23 2006, 05:13 PM
  Why do you say that? Personally, loving someone or being loved really takes you to a whole new level in life. 


i agree with kawaiikiwi. Even though i have been alone for almost a year now, cause this year has been really bad for me, most of the girls in my high school or either not my type (acts werid sometime) or not in my grade <_< . Me and my friend always thought high school is when we r suppose to meet alot of pplz and go out with alot of pplz, but i guess not... :unsure:???
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KawaiiKiwi Posted on Feb 23 2006, 05:13 PM
  Why do you say that? Personally, loving someone or being loved really takes you to a whole new level in life. 


i agree with kawaiikiwi. Even though i have been alone for almost a year now, cause this year has been really bad for me, most of the girls in my high school or either not my type (acts werid sometime) or not in my grade <_< . Me and my friend always thought high school is when we r suppose to meet alot of pplz and go out with alot of pplz, but i guess not... :unsure:???

act weird? in our school all 6-graders and 7-grades act like LESBIANS!!! maybe the teen times... :huh:
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haha i need to go to your school! :D only kidding...

there arent too many nice girls at our school but never mind
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lol i mean act weird as in going high in hallway/classroom, yelling, and doing werid things in class. There is some girls who i would like to know more, but too bad they are all in different classes <_< . well i guess i will meet more pplz next year... :rolleyes: lol
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act weird? in our school all 6-graders and 7-grades act like LESBIANS!!! maybe the teen times... :huh:

Apparently nowadays, it's "cool" for a young girl to go lesbian.
And I think that is just stupid. Either that, or teenage hormones of the 21st century has gone HAYWIRE.
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act weird? in our school all 6-graders and 7-grades act like LESBIANS!!! maybe the teen times... :huh:

Apparently nowadays, it's "cool" for a young girl to go lesbian.
And I think that is just stupid. Either that, or teenage hormones of the 21st century has gone HAYWIRE.

like i agree... but as i mentioned, 2 GIRLS WERE KISSING, AND N.O.T ON CHEEKS BUT L.I.P.S!!! and later they were carrying each other.... :mellow:
at least ther ARE some girls who are NOT pretending to be lesbians. ^_^

At least MINE hormones havent gone haywire :P
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Ahh lol something like this strike me confused....

well this girl i am dating.. well im in love with her, ive been in love before about a year and half ago.. but when she said she didnt love me back i was absolutely crushed... and after that happened i didnt start dating again till about 3 months ago starting with my girl i have and love so much right now.. no im not lieing i do love her

im not afraid to speak my mind i am 17 and i am smarter than you take me to be :D although i need to hurry and graduate this year

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Dirvish, it's not a great idea to fall in love that easily.

I mean, sure you can fall in love, but don't rush in to tell that special someone that you do. If you tell them, and they don't have the same feelings, chances are they will play with your heart, or drop it.

Give it time, build it up, and eventually, her heart will be yours.
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